things I'll do differently

I was reading a blog recently that listed all the things the woman would do differently during her second pregnancy. It got me thinking. What would I do differently during my pregnancy? What will I do differently once the baby is born? And what will I try to do the same?


Things I'll do differently:

1. I'll eat less junk during pregnancy
2. I'll eat more fruits & veggies during pregnancy
3. I'll exercise more/be more active during pregnancy
4. When I was pushing Trent out, Kevin offered to take a picture of Trent's head so I could see, but I said no. If I have the chance next time I will say yes, or ask for a mirror.
5. I might switch bottles. There's nothing wrong with the bottles we use now, there are just sooo many stinkin parts to wash.
6. I might get professional newborn photos done. I didn't do this with Trent and I kinda wish I had.
7. I think I'll get a different diaper bag - one of those messenger style bags or back-pack style. I think that style will be much easier to carry (though having a thick strap across the breast is not the most flattering look, hmmm)
8. I'll take better care of my teeth this time. It's a known fact that pregnancy can do a number on one's teeth. With Trent I got my regular 6-months cleanings, and I brushed my teeth everyday, but it just wasn't enough. I still ended up with several cavities! This time around I am making a conscious effort to brush my teeth twice a day, floss regularly, and use mouthwash containing fluoride. Yes, I know I should have been doing that all my life, but I'm gross and only brush once a day. don't judge me.
9. I hope to "babywear" this time around. I wore Trent from time to time but it hurt my back. This time I'm going to try a few different style carriers and find one that is right for me. It will be alot easier to get things done if I'm wearing #2.

Things I will try to do the same:

1. I will schedule all my monthly doctor appointments late enough in the day so that Kevin has the option to come along if he wants.
2. I will deliver at Saint Francis again. I always envisioned myself birthing babies at Christiana Hospital (probably because it's the only hospital I've ever known) but when I got pregnant with Trent, my Dr informed me that they are associated with St. Francis...so I went with it. For the longest time I always said I will switch to Christiana for any future kids - Christiana is so shiny and big and modern and pretty. St. Francis is so old and ugly and small - But you know what, St. Francis worked for us. We're going with the ole "if it aint broke dont fix it" motto. We had a good experience at St. Francis and see no real reason to switch. Actually, the only reason I could come up with, other than Christiana is so much prettier, was that Christiana is closer - but really, its not THAT much closer.
3. I'm sure I will again offer - but not force - the pacifier. I don't like the idea of a pacifier but im also not so anti-pacifier that I won't offer it at all.
4. I will breastfeed again
5. We're going to do disposable diapers again. When pregnant with Trent, Kevin and I automatically went for the disposable diapers, no questions asked. Since then I've learned that clothe diapers are something we could have easily handled. Sometimes I wish I went with cloth diapers (usually when I'm buying a $40.99 pack of disposables) but I never cared enough to make the switch. Cloth diapers are expensive as well, but it's more of an up-front cost than anything else. They are approximately $18 each and it's recommended that you have a couple dozen on hand. The big pro to cloth diapers is that you can buy one-size-fits-all, so assuming you take good care of them, you won't have to ever purchase more - and you can use them on future kids. Kevin and I agree that had we used cloth diapers with Trent, we'd definitely use them on #2 - we didn't. so we won't.

I'm sure there are more things - but these are the ones that came to mind first. If you are wondering about anything specifically (or was more details) feel free to ask!